The one who is detached is the one who is loving too.

Expression:
The lotus flower is both detached and loving. It is untouched by
the dirt it is surrounded with and is beautiful and loving at the
same time. In the same way, whatever the situations or the people
around us, we need to be untouched by their negativity. Then we
will become the ones who are loving too.

Experience:

When we are faced with a negative situation, instead of blaming the

situation, we need to work at our own inner strength. The problem

could be created by someone else, but we have to make effort in

bringing about the solution. Then we will be able to make things

better without having negative feelings towards anyone.