Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Motivation


The example of an iceberg shows the need to see under people's
surface behaviour; the need of a deeper insight.

Only 10% of an iceberg is visible on the surface, 90% is under the
waterline, invisible, but yet prominent. If there is a wind coming
from left to right, just by seeing the visible mass, we think it will
move the iceberg to towards the right. If, against all expectations,
the iceberg moves in the opposite direction (left), it is because,
under the waterline, there is a strong current running towards the
left.

Sometimes you, as a leader, try to move people in a certain
direction by giving them orders, instructions, explanations and
encouragement, but you do it on the basis of what you see above
the surface. The visible part represents what is at the surface such
as appearance, behaviour, manners etc. You do not see what
moves them under the surface so you become surprised and
maybe frustrated seeing them move in the opposite direction. The
main part, which is the 90% not visible, is within the
subconscious. Under the surface (subconscious) you will find
emotions, fears, attitudes, deeply held values etc.

If you want to move people, if you want to motivate others for a
project or even just to reach others, you need to be aware of
these kinds of things that you find under the surface. The key to
understanding others better is to be more aware of your own
feelings and under-currents, because, at a deep level, we are very
much alike. If you understand your own fears and strong
motivators, you will understand others much better.


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